A man has made a shocking revelation that he allows his wife to have s*x with other men every weekend for money. The man who has been married to the woman for 30 years has endured shame and ridicule throughout the marriage, but has vowed not to quit.
Daily Sun ZA reveals that Lesenyeho Letsooa (65) from L Section, Botshabelo in Free State says he will never leave his wife, Matumelo Letshoara (60).
“I am a man with feelings. I have done everything I could to stop her from running around,” he said.
He said it hurts to see her packing her bag, but there is nothing he can do about it. Every weekend, the wife packs her bag to go to the house of one of her boyfriends.
“Even though she beats me and cheats on me, I will not leave her. We made holy marriage vows.” the husband said.
Explaining how it all started, Lesenyeho said his trouble started many years ago when his wife’s boyfriend stabbed him because of his telling her to stop her bad ways. His wife is a habitual flirt. But, because of his love he kept on forgiving her and never opened a case.
“I forgave her and she promised she would stop her bad behaviour, but the situation is getting worse,” he said.
“I think my love for her has never been enough.”
Lesenyeho claims his wife does not look after the family.
“Matumelo does not have time to look after me and our two grandchildren,” he said.
The grandchildren are aged 10 and 14.
“When I try to talk some sense into her she loses control and starts swearing at me, calling me names,” he claimed.
“She said I do not know how to do a good job in bed.”
The man has asked people to pray for him as he wants his wife to change her bad ways.
“I do not always go to church, but I believe a strong prayer is the only way to save my family,” said Lesenyeho.
Speaking on the issue, Matumelo (the man’s wife) admitted that she cheats on her husband and that she is another man’s weekend special – but she would not say anything else.
“Ask the madala. He knows the reason for all our problems. I am not willing to discuss this matter with you,” said Matumelo to Daily Sun ZA.
Pastor Motseki Ramodula of Mission of Faith from Section W, Botshabelo said the family needs to get counselling.
“The devil is tearing the family apart, but the madala is strong and the devil is not winning the battle,” he said.
He will visit the couple and try to help them to solve their problems.